Paula Munier is an author’s author (and a readers author too!)

If you like your authors to be smart and articulate, you should have a look at Paula Munier’s books. If you like your authors to be authentic and engaging, you should have a look at Paula Munier’s books. If you like your authors to have a great sense of human nature and place, you should have a look at Paula Munier’s books. Paula Munier is all of that, and she writes a fun and engaging monthly newsletter—there is always a picture that makes me smile, a tidbit of information I didn’t even know I needed to know until I read it. And, for me, the icing on the cake, she ALWAYS responds to my goofy comments in response to her newsletter. Paula Munier is not only a mensch, she is a great writer. So you should all go read her Mercy and Elvis series.

“Mercy and Elvis?” you ask. Yep. Mercy Carr is a retired army MP. Her partner, Elvis, is also retired military—a Belgian Malinois bomb-sniffing dog. Together with U. S. Game Warden Troy Warner and his search and rescue Newfoundland Susie Bear, the foursome explore Vermont’s forest wilderness and mountains where they inevitably discover murder and mayhem, and where they build friendship and family.

The first book in the series is a Borrowing of Bones.

 Fourth of July weekend, and Elvis alerts to explosives as he and Mercy are hiking the Lye Brook Wilderness. Then they find a crying baby alone near a shallow grave filled with what appear to be human bones. U.S. Game Warden Troy Warner and his search-and rescue Newfoundland Susie Bear respond to Mercy’s 911 call, and the four learn to work together to track down a missing mother, solve a cold-case murder, and keep the citizens of Vermont safe.

In the second installment, Mercy, Elvis, Troy and Susie Bear meet nine-year-old Henry, who’s lost in the Vermont woods in October. Again. Only this time, he sees something terrible. When a young woman is found shot through the heart with a fatal arrow, Mercy thinks that something is murder. But Henry, a math genius whose autism often silences him when he should speak up most, is not talking. Now there’s a murderer hiding among the hunters in the forest—and the fabulous foursome need to find the killer—before the killer finds Henry. When an early season blizzard hits the mountains, cutting them off from the rest of the world, the race is on to solve the crime, apprehend the murderer, and keep the boy safe until the snowplows get through.

In the third Mercy and Elvis book, the man who killed her grandfather breaks out of prison and comes after her grandmother. In the search to find the man who threatens her family, Mercy must unearth the long-buried scandals that threaten to tear her family apart. Meanwhile an army vet appears at Mercy’s door claiming to be Elvis’ handler, and asserting his right to Elvis. You really won’t want to put this one down!

The most recent Mercy and Elvis book is The Wedding Plot. Mercy’s grandmother Patience finally agrees to marry her long time beau Claude Renault at the five-star Lady’s Slipper Inn. Mercy’s mother, Grace, is the wedding planner, and it promises to be the destination wedding of the year. Just as the four-day extravaganza is due to begin, the inn’s spa director Bodhi St. George disappears—and Mercy’s mother sends Mercy and Elvis to find him. But what they discover instead is a stranger skewered by a pitchfork in the barn on the goat farm where St. George lived. From there, everything unravels, mayhem and murder ensue, and it just keeps getting better—with a surprise ending that.. well, read the book!


How Pema Chodron’s The Wisdom of No Escape helped me to understand that silence can be golden

I went to the first meeting of a mindfulness book club last night. The book to be discussed was Pema Chodron’s “The Wisdom of No Escape.”  It was an interesting experience for me. I loved reading the book. I was really looking forward to being part of a book club. And I sat there for the entire hour and a half and said nothing. Sweet Mother of Graciousness, I am 70 years old. As my sister says, I’m as old as people who are old (and that thought is indeed weird). How can I still act like a shy introvert? I truly need to get over myself.

The group leader started with a couple of ground rules: After someone speaks, don’t say, ‘Oh but I’ . . . be respectful of other people’s thoughts and feelings. And, keep your comments short so there is enough air space for everyone (there were about 30 people there).

The leader started by saying the book is a collection of talks Pema Chodron gave at a retreat at Gampo Abbey.  The leader shared with us that while she never met Pema Chodron, she had been to Gampo Abbey. A few years ago, she was in Cape Breton and drove by the abbey, but didn’t get out of the car. I sat there with a handful of pictures of Gampo Abbey tucked inside my copy of the book—I too had been to Cape Breton and drove by Gampo Abbey in the fall of 2019. But we did get out of the car and walked around a little. There are some trails that meander along a stream and wind their way to a Stupa of Enlightenment. It is a lovely setting farm like setting with breathtaking views of the Gulf of St. Lawrence.

Then the first question for the group to discuss: what passages in the book spoke to you in particular? Sweet Mother of the Goddess! I read the book focusing on theory and guidelines for practice. I was so not ready for that kind of question. So I sat and listened. Then I thought, well, there is this part where Pema is talking about the lineage of her teachers. By way of showing how even flawed human beings have become venerated teachers she lists off how one was a madman; one was completely conceptual and intellectual and incapable of applying and embodying the teachings for 12 years; one was famous for his intensely bad temper and was also a drunk; and my personal favorite, Milarepa, was a murderer; another one was supremely arrogant, and a final one was just butt ugly. She offers all of that up so that we can take heart that the wise ones were a bunch of neurotics, just like us. I read those lines, I knew that even I could find a place in a community like that. I took comforted in reading it, it opened a space where I felt like maybe there could indeed be a place for me in that tradition. But I said nothing, because. . . because why? It just didn’t seem like what she was asking—until the leader discussed that very same passage.

Then someone talked a bit about the breathing practice Pema Chodron describes—following the out-breath—and how, for her, it felt more meaningful to follow the in-breath. And I wanted to say that when I follow the out-breath, it opens my heart and mind to a kind of letting go and a sense of greater openness. But I said nothing because I didn’t want to be disrespectful of the other woman’s comment.

Then a guy talked about a story Pema tells in the book. It is one of my favorite stories:

A woman running away from tigers, keeps running and running. The tigers are getting closer and closer. She comes to the edge of a cliff, sees some vines there, climbs down and holds onto the vines. She looks down and sees there are tigers below as well. Then she notices a mouse gnawing on the vine to which she is clinging. She also notices a beautiful little bunch of strawberries close by. She looks up, looks down, looks at the mouse, reaches out, takes a strawberry, puts it in her mouth and thoroughly enjoys it.

The guy highlighted the woman eating the strawberry, and the simplicity and joy of being in and enjoying the present moment.

And I thought, yes, be in the present moment and also employ skillful means to ensure that you have done your best. Before she ate the strawberry, she ran, she climbed, she did all she could to ensure her safety and well-being—then she surrendered. But those thoughts felt too much like a ‘yes, but’ to what the guy said, so I said nothing.

            As the conversation continued, I kept thinking I should say something. But whatever came into my head was a beat too late and in my heart of hearts I wondered if the stuff I was thinking wasn’t just a bit of one upping. And all the while, I kept hearing Elsa, from Frozen, singing ‘Let it Go’ even as I kept obsessing about not talking.

            Maybe next month I will just say something!

And, maybe for now, I will focus more on the section of the book where Pema talks about Kintsugi—the Japanese practice of repairing broken pottery with lacquer mixed with gold dust. Yes, I am the same age as old people, and yes I am still broken in ways that surprise me. But a broken heart is an open heart. And so today I will cherish and celebrate my new awareness of my openness.